I'm going to vent for a minute. There's one thing that I cannot stand, and It's when people assume that they are the only people on this earth struggling. They constantly want people to wallow in self-indulgence and misery with them, you know, a pity party. Now, I know if you are going through something so terrifying, it's easier to curl up in a ball and cry until you can't cry anymore, rather than picking up the pieces and moving on. Trust me, I have been there, but if there's one thing I've learned, it's that crying and wanting to bring others around you down won't solve anything. Yeah, misery loves company for sure, but that isn't fair is it? Do you really think it's fair to bring other people down, because you're having a bad day? Constantly, we are going to be faced with so many trials. Some of them will be small, others won't be. You've just got to keep on keeping on. Hold your head up high, and believe that this too shall pass, because it will. Me and my mom struggle, but we don't expect for others to give us a hand out just because of her cancer, because behind her illness ... she's just a hard working female trying to make it in life. We're all going to want to take the easy way out of our obstacles, but sooner or later, you'll have to realize that it's not going to be effortless. We're going to stumble, and we might even fall, but as long as you get back up & brush it off, that'll make all the difference in the world. Every last one of us, doesn't matter if we are rich or poor, we're all going to hurt mentally and emotionally, but it's up to you if you want to stay that way.
Friday, April 24, 2009
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True everyone has their problems no matter what because no one can ever be satisfied with anything most of the time. I think the only time its fair to bring someone down is when you see them being really judgemental and harsh, thats when you need to slap them in their face n make them think about if they was that person n show them how they would feel to have someone like them coming at them with fakeassness and bitchassness lol. = ]
ReplyDeleteLmfao Hailey! Thanks fer commenting, hun.
ReplyDeleteYou said it best, "misery LOVES company." People complain and mope around because they either want you to feel sorry for them or give them a free ride. I have learned that no matter what trials and tribulations you go through (and I've gone through plenty), you can still survive. What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. Weed out those people in your life who are serial complainers; they're worth it. They're baggage and a huge headache that Advil and Tylenol Extra Strength won't get rid of.
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